The last few days have held much practice in civil debate. I am fortunate to have very experienced, reasonable examples around me as I try to play my part in collective decision-making and policy-setting. We all keep our self-interests in mind as we attempt to serve the bigger picture. Biases emerge through the debate, they tend to be pretty predictable. Self-interest, some might say survival instincts, tend to kick in.
I was caught not fully listening. Deciding my opinion before hearing out one speaker. She called me on it and I then listened and found I could agree on her good idea in theory, though the details would need working on. We made good progress, with no name calling, no accusations, and in the end we have an action plan. Exhausting, but satisfying work that helps me personally in not getting caught up in my feelings.
Today also brought a couple of lovely moments of connection of glances and sharing of smiles with strangers, one man on a bicycle during my walk to work, with each of us doing a couple of double-takes. The other with a construction worker during my walk home, again with the double-takes.
On another topic, I found out today that no cancer was found and once again I am maybe ok. For now.
Brought home a bounty of local Brussels sprouts, tiny potatoes, kale, zucchini, and green onions. And some teeny sweet plums that just glowed.
The house is quiet. I have washed sinks full of dishes this week, as I am cooking great meals for myself. At least I get the bare minimum of chores done. Next, to tackle the thinning of belongings and the cleaning all the corners out.
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